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<Title>Got Conflict? (Follow-up from the Conflict Resolution talk.)</Title>
<Tagline>Stephanie Lazarus' presentation, Aug. 23, Teaching Seminar</Tagline>
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    <div class="html-content"><p><strong><span><em>Courtesy of Stephanie Lazarus, UMBC’s Office of
    Human Relations</em></span></strong></p><p><span>Got
    conflict?</span></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>                            </span></strong></p>
    
    <p><span>Know your role, purpose, and context</span></p>
    
    <p><span>Be present, provide your undivided
    attention, or create a space where you can</span></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Strategies:
    </span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Collaborate
    – is there a way this can create a win-win situation for both of us?</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Compromising
    - </span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Accommodate
    – often used with students who have a disability</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Avoiding
    - Referring</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Competing/Forcing</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span> </span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Developing Your Personal Conflict
    Toolbox:</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><span>Preventing Sexual
    Harassment Online <strong><em>Training</em></strong> (when registering, select the department that you are
    working with, not your major): </span><a href="http://training.newmedialearning.com/psh/umbc/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://training.newmedialearning.com/psh/umbc/</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><span>The Wellness
    Initiative Resources : </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/wellness/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/wellness/</span></a><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><span>Relationship
    Practice Archive: </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/wellness/relationships.html" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/wellness/relationships.html</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Conflict
    Consultation and Referral:</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Center
    for Mediation and Conflict Resolution: </span></strong></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Mediation, Conflict
    Coaching, Conferencing/Restorative Justice, Facilitation, and Conciliation </span></em></strong></p>
    
    <p><span>Administration 902
    phone: 410-455-8624, <a href="mailto:cmcr904@umbc.edu">cmcr904@umbc.edu</a></span></p>
    
    <p><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/humanrelations/cmcr/index.html" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/humanrelations/cmcr/index.html</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Office
    of Human Relations Programs </span></strong><span>Administration
    902-903, </span></p>
    
    <p><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/humanrelations/index.html" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/humanrelations/index.html</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span>Questions or concerns related to race, color, national
    origin, ancestry, ethnic background, genetics, disability, age, sex, gender
    identity and expression, marital status, sexual orientation, religion, creed,
    and/or veteran status</span><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span>Stephanie Lazarus phone:
    410-455-5745 </span><a href="mailto:slazar@umbc.edu" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>slazar@umbc.edu</span></a><u><span></span></u></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Referral partners</span></strong></p>
    
    <p><em><span> </span></em></p>
    
    <p><strong><span>Student
    Judicial Programs: </span></strong><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/sjp/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/sjp/</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><span>Student Development
    and Success Center, Room 118, phone 410-455-2458</span></p>
    
    <p><em><span>Student
    Code of Conduct:</span></em><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/sjp/articles/code.html" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/sjp/articles/code.html</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><em><span> </span></em></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Sexual Assault and
    Relationship Violence Response:</span></em></strong><span>
    Voices Against Violence Program: </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/vav/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/vav/</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><em><span> </span></em></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Safety=Credible
    threats of violence for harm to self or others:</span></em></strong><span> UMBC Police: 410-455-5555 or 911</span></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Student Resource:
    University Counseling Services</span></em></strong><strong><span>:</span></strong><span> 410-455-2472 </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/counseling/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/counseling/</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><em><span> </span></em></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Student Resource:
    University Health Services</span></em></strong><strong><span>:</span></strong><span> 410-455-2542 </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/uhs/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/uhs/</span></a><span></span></p>
    
    <p><em><span> </span></em></p>
    
    <p><strong><em><span>Student Resource:
    Student Disability Accommodation:</span></em></strong><strong><span> Student Support
    Services:</span></strong><span>
    410-455-2459 </span><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/sss/flash_pages/sss_disab1.htm" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/sss/</span></a><span><span> </span></span></p>
    
    <p><span> </span></p>
    
    <p><em><span>UMBC
    Policy Website:</span></em><a href="http://www.umbc.edu/policies/" rel="nofollow external" class="bo"><span>http://www.umbc.edu/policies/</span></a><span></span></p></div>
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<Summary>Courtesy of Stephanie Lazarus, UMBC’s Office of Human Relations  Got conflict?                                    Know your role, purpose, and context    Be present, provide your undivided...</Summary>
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