A post written by Women’s Center staff member, Bria

My click moment was progressive. It proceeded slowly, with caution, and then consumed me.

For as long as it has been relevant, I’ve believed in autonomy. I didn’t have the word for it in 7th grade, but I knew that I was never obligated to dance with a boy at a mixer* or hug a stranger just because they insisted I should. I don’t remember the day I realized I was black, but I do remember the day I learned of “Affirmative Action.” Eleven years old is a little soon to tell someone they only got into that middle school because they are black. I knew of overt racism, but the door to covert racism swung open with the hiss of that tongue.

I don’t remember the day I realized I was a feminist, but I do remember the day my “friends” tried to make me feel like a slut** because I told them I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend. I was unaware at the time that they had become sexually active years before and were taking the opportunity to project some regretful feelings in the form of hate. I don’t remember the first time I spoke out in support of reproductive justice, but I do remember the devastation I felt after the only comprehensive reproductive health class at my high school was dropped due to its “insignificance” in relation to English and science.

And then there was the first time I consciously acknowledged my liberality.

The moment when you cross the line from spectator to activist is a scary one. You know there’s no going back, no renouncing your titles. It’s permanent. To go from the quiet girl who solely acknowledged injustices and microaggressions to the one who actively spoke out against stigma, prejudices, and misogyny… that was my click moment. It was a sneaky, powerful, positive, scary moment. Think of it like approaching the peak of a roller-coaster, but the thrill of anticipation never ends.

*mixer: a middle school dance

**slut: a person who should is shamed for their sexual activities

UMBC Women Who Rock is a blog series I’m working on throughout the 2014-15 academic year. In my role as Women’s Center director, I have some of the best opportunities to become acquainted with some of UMBC’s best and brightest women on campus. I admire the ways they live authentic lives unapologetically that challenge the stereotypes and assumptions that are often assigned to women. By debunking these stereotypes and forcing us to check our assumptions, they allow us to expand our notion of what a woman is and can be.

-Jess

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UMBC Women Who Rock! A Reflection on Encouragement and Accountability

With only three posts in this series, it might seem a little too early to spice things up, but the spirit of this series is really that of personal reflection (in addition to of course, celebrating other women) and I have some reflections to share. So for this post, I’m expanding the concept of the series to not just write about a particular UMBC woman but the experience of working with other UMBC women.  In this case, it’s the experience of writing a chapter for a women in leadership book series called Advancing Women and Leadership: Moving the Needle through Applied Theory Building with Virginia Byrne of Student Life and Crystal Diaz-Espinoza of CWIT. Our chapter called “The Non-Traditional Patchwork of College Women Student Leaders: A Multidisciplinary Reflection on Theory” focuses on ways in which we seek to build bridges at UMBC between marginalized groups of women leaders and the larger campus community in an effort to encourage transformational leadership development. We specifically focus on the experiences of UMBC women adult learners and women students majoring in information technology and engineering.

Now that the first hurdle of submitting our draft is behind us, I’ve had time to reflect on the experience. It was hard! I knew what I wanted to write and had all the confidence in the world until I sat in front of my computer trying to put my thoughts into words. It was like teaching someone to tie their shoe or ride a bike. I’ve been doing the action for so long that taking a step back and breaking it down part-by-part proved to be more difficult than I thought. On top of the challenge of actually writing, we were doing so with a week left before the spring semester begun. I felt behind on my work in the Women’s Center and some of our biggest programming and events were coming up in just a few short weeks. And it was cold and winter is the worst. Long story short, I was a grouchy baby.

I look back over the past week of writing sessions and writing and recognize they weren’t some of my proudest moments. I kept looking for ways to convince myself that I wasn’t smart enough to write this paper and that I possibly didn’t have anything worth including in a real-life book. I kept hoping that maybe Crystal or Virginia felt the same way and we could quit this whole thing.

Shine Theory fail.

Through my love of podcasts, I’ve recently been exposed to this concept of Shine Theory. Explained by Ann Friedman in her article over at The Cut, she explores the idea that powerful women make the best of friends. She writes, “Surrounding yourself with the best people doesn’t make you look worse by comparison. It makes you better.” I can get on board with that, but what I really take away from Shine Theory is how Anne’s best friend, Amina, sums it up:  “I don’t shine if you don’t shine.”

Thank goodness Virginia and Crystal were willing and able to share their shine with me. As Friedman continues in her article, “True confidence is infectious.” While I know we all had our doubts, my writing partners wouldn’t let me quit. Time and time again, they’d share accolades and encouragement with me and with each other. This is great. You’ve got this. Yes, keep going. We’re going to finish this.

And, you know what? The more I heard it, the more I believed it. As our paper came together, I gained more confidence. The words came out easier and I was able to be a better teammate in the process.  I also think our chapter is pretty darn awesome and I’m really glad I didn’t give up. Thank you Virginia and Crystal!

When I hear people talk about Shine Theory, I hear it presented from the perspective of “you, good person… go find other great people to help you shine,” which I think is important and enriching for one’s personal and professional lives. We all need people to learn from and share encouragement. But, I want to hold myself accountable as well. I want to be a person that just isn’t doing the taking of the shine but is giving of the shine. This experience reminds how easy it can be to make something just about you. I wasn’t the only one who was busy and working through other deadlines or feeling challenged by the task at hand. Where could I have provided more support and encouragement to my writing partners? What steps do I need to take next time to get my shine on earlier? These are questions I’m going to keep in mind as I move into a busy spring semester and will be confronted with opportunities to shine for others and be motivated by the shine of UMBC Women Who Rock.

Shine on UMBC…. Shine on.

Who are the UMBC women in your life that inspire you to think outside your expectations and assumptions? What are the counter narrative stories they’re sharing with us allowing UMBC and our greater community to be more of exactly who we want to be? Comment below and maybe you’ll just find them featured in a future UMBC Women Who Rock post.

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Check out other UMBC Women Who Rock:

Amanda Knapp (featured August 2014)
Susan Dumont (featured October 2014)
Jahia Knobloch (featured January 2015)

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Deadline Extended until Sunday, Feb 8th! 

Critical Social Justice 2015 is quickly approaching and we’re looking for art submissions to add to the CSJ 2015 Art Gallery! This year’s CSJ theme is Creating Brave Spaces and we’re asking for art submissions that explore and/or address what it means to create brave spaces.

Last year’s CSJ art gallery located on the Mezzanine of The Commons.

CSJ invites different types of activists — students, teachers, artists, musicians, doctors, and more — to talk critically about social justice and how they are creating change in their own unique ways. In addition to our discussions, keynotes, and reflections, the CSJ Art Gallery is intended to give another kind of voice and experience to the conversations we’re having on campus about social justice.

All UMBC community members are invited to submit their work by Wednesday, February 4th at 4pm. Artists are asked to complete this form and email a jpg image of their artwork to womens.center@umbc.edu. 

Accepted artwork must be dropped off to the Women’s Center no later than Wednesday, February 11th at 5pm to ensure timely installation. Additional information will be provided once your artwork has been submitted and confirmed for inclusion in the gallery.

The Critical Social Justice 2015 Art Gallery will be on display from February 16th-20th in The Commons Mezzanine Gallery. For more on last year’s art gallery, check out former student staff member Kelly Martin Broderick’s reflection about art and activism.

For additional questions, contact the Women’s Center staff at womens.center@umbc.edu or 410-455-2714.

We are excited to announce the 2015 Critical Social Justice Calendar of Events!

February 16th | Monday

CSJ 101: Introduction to Brave Spaces – 12PM to 1:30PM in Commons 329 – A fishbowl conversation on defining, navigating, and creating brave spaces. Event sponsored by: Women’s Center and Mosaic Center. Facebook, myUMBC

February 17th | Tuesday

Activism: What Works and What Doesn’t – 4PM to 5PM in Public Policy 208 – A presentation and discussion on how to organize and strategize for social movements. Event sponsored by: Amnesty International. myUMBC

February 18th | Wednesday

Women’s Center Occupies Main Street – 11AM to 2PM on Main Street in the Commons – Celebrating the multi-pronged mission of the Women’s Center as both a space for community building and comfort, as well as a space of social justice activism and brave space dialogues, the Center will be taking over Main Street with activities, crafts, campaigns, and refreshments. Event sponsored by: Women’s Center. Facebook, myUMBC

A Socio-Cultural Dialogue: The Immigrant’s Tale – 12PM to 1PM in the Mosaic Center – Lambda Theta Alpha Latin Sorority, Inc. invites students, staff, and faculty to discuss their experiences with immigration to the United States. Because immigration is not often discussed openly, we would like to create a safe and brave space where people can do just that and where people can also learn more about immigration. Event sponsored by: Lambda Theta Alpha Latin Sorority, Inc.

Social Justice Pedagogy: Tensions, Triggers, & Teachable Moments – 3PM to 4PM in Sherman 220A – An interdisciplinary faculty panel discussion on pedagogical approaches to cultivating safe and/or brave spaces for learning and social justice engagement. Panelists include: Dr. Kate Drabinski, Gender and Women’s Studies; Dr. April Householder, Gender and Women’s Studies and McNair Scholars Program; Dr. Jodi Kelber-Kaye, Honors College; Dr. Donald E. Knight, Psychology; and Dr. Dena T. Smith, Sociology and Anthropology. Event sponsored by: Women’s Center. myUMBC

Let’s Talk About It: The Health Crisis Affecting the African American Community – 5PM to 7PM in Lower Flat Tuesdays – Lecture and discussion with Dr. Shawn Bediako (Psychology) and Dr. Erica Taylor (Africana Studies). Light refreshments provided. Event sponsored by: Flat Tuesdays, University Health Services, National Society of Black Engineers, and Student Life’s Mosaic Center. myUMBC

Creating Brave Stages – 5PM to 7:30PM in UC 310 – Workshop and discussion with Jasmine Blanks of Everyman Theater on integrating social justice and theater. Event sponsored by: Critical Social Justice Student Alliance, Women’s Center, Women of Color Coalition. myUMBC Facebook

Franchesca Ramsey: Your Powerful Online Voice: Social Media For Social Change – 7:30PM to 10PM in the UC Ballroom – Franchesca Ramsey’s keynote lecture for CSJ 2015 will be about using the the internet as a platform for social justice activism. A Q&A session and reception will also follow the lecture. Doors open at 7pm. Free and open to the public. Event sponsored by: Women’s Center and Mosaic Center. Facebook, myUMBC

February 19th | Thursday

Invisible Privilege (Made Visible) – 1PM to 3PM on Main Street in the Commons – The Mosaic Center hosts an exercise and discussion about recognizing the privileges that you hold–whether you are aware of them or not. Event sponsored by: Mosaic Center.

CSJ Reflection – 3PM to 4PM in the Mosaic Center – Come discuss what you learned from CSJ 2015 and tell us what you want to see next year. Event sponsored by: Women’s Center and Mosaic Center

Making Queer Spaces Brave Spaces – 7:30PM to 9PM in the Women’s Center –  Although there has been significant progress made in expanding the safe(r) spaces available for queer-identified people, there has also been a pervasive and troubling misconception that queer space is necessarily safe space. This fallacy often obscures the unfortunate reality that queer spaces are not always safe for certain people/groups/identities, and queer communities are not exempt from perpetuating oppression. This roundtable discussion will address some of the problems and barriers preventing many queer communities from being truly safe and inclusive spaces. The program will also focus on how attendees can make changes in their own lives and advocate an intersectional approach to social justice in queer communities. Event sponsored by: Student Life’s Mosaic: Culture & Diversity Center and The Women’s Center at UMBC​. myUMBC Facebook.

February 20th | Friday

The Aftermath: Supporting Students of Color in Times of Crisis – 4PM to 5PM in the Mosaic Center – UMBC staff and faculty are invited to join this conversation about how we as a University and Division can show adequate support for students of color when it comes to racial issues on and off campus and in the media. During this conversation we will use Ferguson, Eric Garner, and the protests held on campus to highlight and share anything we did for our students in those moments or wish we would have done differently. There will also be a brainstorming session for things we would like to do moving forward to support ALL of our students including black, brown, white allies, and otherwise during high tension times of civil unrest in our country. Event sponsored by: Student Affairs: Staff Development Committee

Ask Big Questions Shabbat Dinner: “When are you brave?” –  6:15PM to 7:30PM on Main Street in the Commons – Students, faculty, and staff are invited to come together and share their experiences and a meal. The big question for tonight’s dinner is “When are you brave?” All are welcome to attend this event. Event sponsored by: UMBC Hillel

All Week

CSJ Art Gallery – Commons Mezzanine Gallery
(artist statements available here)

Hi Everyone,

I would like to bring your attention to some possibilities that you have to present research papers you may have hiding in your computers.

1) Pi Sigma Alpha Undergraduate Research Conference at UMBC

This year Pi Sigma Alpha (the national political science honors society) will host an undergraduate research conference for students to present work they have done in Political Science. The work can be an independent study you have completed or something you have completed for a class you have taken at UMBC or elsewhere. Students who participate in the conference present their work on large posters that will be displayed on Wednesday APRIL 15, 2015 from 11am to 1pm. It is a fun opportunity for students to present their work to faculty and students in Political Science in a smaller environment. Please email Carolyn Forestiere if you are interested (forestie@umbc.edu).

2) Undergraduate Research and Creative Achievement Day (URCAD)

URCAD is a wonderful day on our campus when hundreds of students present their work as either poster or oral presentations. This year URCAD is on April 22nd. Any work you have done in Political Science can be presented as a poster or oral presentation. Please participate if you are interested. Feel free to ask Carolyn Forestiere (forestie@umbc.edu) any questions you may have and please refer to this website for information about URCAD:

http://www.umbc.edu/undergrad_ed/research/URCAD/

I look forward to seeing you present your work!

All best,

Carolyn Forestiere, Ph.D.
Associate Professor
Department of Political Science
University of Maryland, Baltimore County